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This is my wild & wonderful single motherhood journey


Mountains, Motherhood, and Finding Myself Somewhere Between Frisco and Dillon
This weekend I found myself winding through the mountains of Frisco, Breckenridge, and Dillon, Colorado. The views were incredible. The air was crisp. The lakes sparkled. And for a brief moment, I remembered what it feels like to exist as something other than someone's mom. Now before anyone comes for me—being a mom is my greatest privilege. My kids are my world. But if you're a mother, especially a single mother, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Motherhood isn't just
Melissa O’Leary
Jun 113 min read


How To Be A Single Mom Without Losing Yourself
Becoming a mother is life-changing. Becoming a single mother for the first time? That’s a whole different story. One with no manual, no guaranteed support system, and often, no time to even process what just happened. Maybe you’re raising your child alone after heartbreak, abandonment, or the unimaginable grief of losing your partner. Whatever your path, this wasn’t the plan. And now, you’re not just learning how to be a mom, you’re learning how to rebuild. Here’s what you ne
Melissa O’Leary
Apr 234 min read


Set Boundaries: 12 Ways to Protect Your Energy and Peace
Do you ever feel overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like you're constantly saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? You're not alone. For years, and throughout most of my 20's, I was a chronic people pleaser. I said yes to everything for fear of hurting others’ feelings. I kept going until I was completely burnt out, and that burnout led to anger and frustration. But once I learned how to set boundaries, I could still show up—on my terms—and protect my energy. One of the
Melissa O’Leary
Mar 195 min read


{The Actually REALISTIC} Self-Care Guide For Moms
TAKE A DEEP BREATH, PAT YOURSELF ON THE BACK, MAKE A CUP OF COFFEE OR TEA & READ THIS. If you’re reading this, my guess is that you’re tired . Not just "I could use a nap" tired, but soul-deep, "if one more person calls my name, I might fake my own disappearance" tired. You need time for a nap but seriously —what is time and who even has it?! I get it. Believe me, I know. I’ve been there, staring into the fridge like it holds the answers to life while my kids stage a WWE matc
Melissa O’Leary
Mar 109 min read


10 Honest Truths I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me About Single Motherhood.
Single motherhood is an intense mix of profound strength and overwhelming exhaustion, often requiring you to build your own support village and let go of perfectionism. It is a journey that forces you to prioritize, trust your instincts, and redefine success on your own terms , proving that you are enough for your children . No matter what stage of your single parenthood journey you're in or how old your children are...being a single mama can be tough and have it's moments.
Melissa O’Leary
Mar 65 min read


Navigating Your Nos: What Part of Motherhood Is Hard to Say No To?
Discover what part of motherhood is hard to say no to, as we chat about self-care and saying ‘yes’ to yourself. Whether you’re a new mom or a seasoned one, it feels like the question “what part of motherhood is hard to say no to?” continues to come up again and again and again. I spent a long time feeling like nothing was negotiable if I wanted to be a good mom. Everything felt like a priority and figuring out what to say no to was just more work. As a mom, it’s easy to fee
Melissa O’Leary
Mar 310 min read


Tax Filing For Divorced or Separated Parents: What You Need To Know
Tax season is stressful enough. It can be even more so if you are recently separated or divorced and share custody of your children. Many parents are unsure how to handle tax filings in these situations, which can add unnecessary tension to an already complicated process. If you are a parent who is divorced or separated and shares custody, or confused on navigating this new challenge, then keep reading. We'll break down some of the basics, discuss some important consideratio
Melissa O’Leary
Jan 95 min read


How To Love Your Teen Through The Hardest Days
Anyone that has parented teenagers (or is currently in the thick of the teen years) can certainly relate here. The random meltdowns and...
Melissa O’Leary
Sep 2, 20256 min read


Coping With Shared Custody: Benefits & Strategies For Separated Parents
My Story One of the hardest things I've had to face in my adult life was going through a fairly contentious custody battle, which came...
Melissa O’Leary
Aug 12, 20258 min read


Managing Back-To-School And Co-Parenting
Back-to-school season is upon us. It's an exciting time for children, marked with fun traditions like new clothes shopping, fresh...
Melissa O’Leary
Aug 7, 20255 min read


The Ultimate Guide To Camping With Kids
If the thought of camping with kids sounds fun {but a little overwhelming}, then this is definitely the post for you! Over the years my...
Melissa O’Leary
Jul 29, 20257 min read


It's Not Personal: 14 Comforting Truths About Raising Teens During Puberty
If you have a tween or teen living under your roof, chances are you are very familiar with the infamous attitude and sass. A slammed door...
Melissa O’Leary
Jul 22, 20256 min read


10 Important Social Skills Your Teen Should Be Taught
As adults our social skills are so ingrained in our daily lives and second nature to us, so we often don't think twice about what we're...
Melissa O’Leary
Jul 17, 20258 min read


Navigating the Holiday Season When Sharing Custody
If this is your first year dealing with a new co-parenting arrangement during the holiday season ~ you are not alone. The experience of...
Melissa O’Leary
Nov 1, 20246 min read


Managing Holiday Stress Through Co-Parenting and Divorce
The holidays are supposed to be the most wonderful time of year! A joyous season filled with family gatherings, delicious food, festive...
Melissa O’Leary
Oct 10, 20245 min read


Common Co-Parenting Challenges & How to Overcome Them
After a breakup, divorce or settling custody terms, individual parents often face obstacles when it comes to co-parenting and providing...
Melissa O’Leary
Sep 20, 20246 min read


Time-Saving Hacks for the Busy Working Mom
Working any type of job ~ either as an employee or as an entrepreneur has it's challenges. Now add that on top of being a mom, or even...
Melissa O’Leary
Sep 11, 20246 min read


Setting Boundaries When Co-parenting with a High Conflict Ex
I'm just going to throw this out there from experience and personal testimony- co-parenting with a high conflict or narcissistic ex...
Melissa O’Leary
Sep 3, 20246 min read


Self Care & The Single Mom
Single motherhood truly is a journey! One of the most important things I am learning as I navigate it is the importance of loving and...
Melissa O’Leary
Aug 28, 20247 min read


Parenting Plans: Why Its Important & What to Consider
I a a huge advocate for having a parenting plan in place. Especially in high-conflict co-parenting dynamics. Chances are if you find...
Melissa O’Leary
Aug 21, 20244 min read
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